Thursday, September 2, 2021
Return To Your First Love
Sunday, May 9, 2021
Who's your Moma?
Happy Mother’s Day! Sorry, that just doesn’t sound right to
me. I almost never say “Mother”-too pretentious. Mom is only slightly better,
but in my head, it’s stretched out and whiney- “Mommmmmm!” No, as a true Son of
the South, the word for the woman who gave me life is “Moma”. Yep, as is “If
Moma said it, that’s all you need to say.” And the phrase that strikes fear
into the heart of every man and boy, “If Moma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy!”
Proverbs 31:27-29
She looks well to the ways of her household and does not
eat the bread of idleness. Her Children rise up and call her blessed; her
husband also praises her; “Many women have done excellently, but you surpass
them all.”
That’s a pretty awesome scripture but have any of you read
that full chapter? It’s a listing of the attributes that call this woman
blessed. It reads like about 5 job descriptions all rolled into one big, huge
job. That is a pretty difficult model to live up to, so I’m thinking we should
look to other models to see what we should be looking for “blessed”.
Let’s start at the beginning:
Eve: Moma “Ground Zero” – let’s see, gave her husband some
bad fruit, kids squabbled and competed against each other. One actually killed
the other. But to be fair, no one had ever been a Moma before – no Dr. Spock or
What to expect when you’re expecting-not even a Moma to call and ask, “WHAT IS
GOING ON??!!”
Sarah (Abraham’s wife): Lied to the King of Egypt about
being married, laughed when God said she would have a child, drove her maid out
to the dessert to die out of jealousy-ok, maybe not her.
Rebecca (Isaac’s wife): helper her son Jacob trick his
brother out of his birthright, then helped him trick Isaac into giving his blessing-got
Jacob sent out to the country to get a wife to let things cool down. Jacob
married…
Rachel: who when they were coming back home, stole from her
father’s house and when the father’s men came to search her tent, covered it
all up, gut under the blanket, and said they couldn’t come in because she was “in
a womanly way.”
Ok, striking out here. Let’s get out of the Patriarchs:
Bathsheba: wife of David, man after God’s own heart, right?
Moma to wise King Solomon-hmm, affair, pregnant, David had husband killed,
child out of wed lock died.
Ok, New Testament. Let’s look at the main Moma of all,
Mary. I mean that’s perfection, right? Blessed above all women and all that?
God Himself chose her to carry and nurture His Son-Yet…
When Jesus was 12, they did go a full day’s journey before
realizing He wasn’t with them. I mean left at the store is one thing, but they
didn’t find him for another 3 days.
Another time-The wedding at Cana is considered Jesus first miracle
and marked a change in His ministry as He began to let people know who He
really was. So, what happened? In John, chapter 2:
The family was at a wedding feast, and due to either poor preparation
or REALLY thirsty guests, they ran out of wine. Major faux paus there. So, Mary
goes to Jesus and tells Him “They have no wine.”. Jesus says “What has that got
to do with me? My hour has not yet come.” What does Mary do? Tells the servants
“Go do whatever my son tells you.” Now Jesus is kind of roped into it, cause a
good boy does what Moma says, right? Honor your father and mother? So, first miracle,
water into wine.
Interestingly enough, some people think this may have
started His ministry earlier than He intended. In Matthew, there’s the story of
Jesus casting out demons from a wild man. The demons actually have enough guts
to ask Jesus “Are you casting us out BEFORE THE APPOINTED TIME?” so they asked
to be cast into a heard of pigs instead, which did NOT sit well with the
townspeople. So typical, they have a man cured of his madness, and they’re
worried about livestock. Course there’s also the fact that these good Jewish townsfolk
had a herd of pigs, but that’s another story.
You can look all through scripture to find the perfect
wife, Moma, woman, or man for that matter, and other than Jesus, they just are
not there. Truth is God has a history of using people that have been broken,
used or hurt. It is in that brokenness that His strength shows through. So how
did these women, and others in the Bible get to be women that could be called
blessed?
They knew that ultimately; God was in control. Eve, with
all her troubles and heartache, never lost sight of the promise God made, that
salvation would come through her descendants; In cursing the serpent, God said the serpent's destruction would be through Her Offspring. Even after the death of Abel,
she believed and trusted God’s purpose. She knew God would make a way.
Mary never lost sight of that either. God chose to do something
with her that by nature was impossible, she knows what the people would think
of her, but in spite to the fact that there was no way this promise could be
fulfilled, God made a way. Even when the wise men told her” A sword would pierce
her own heart also” she believed. Even when she saw Jesus hanging from the cross
and telling John to take her as his own mother, she knows God would make a way.
And three days later, what a way He made.
You don’t have to be the perfect “Leave it to Beaver” mom,
pearls and heels ready, multi-tasking better than the best CEO. You do the best
you can, you put it all in God’s hands, and you trust God enough to leave it
there. I remember a preacher once telling me “In prayer we leave our problems
at the feet of Jesus. Trouble is we tend to pick them back up on the way out”.
Trust that the Lord will do as He said. Trust that God will make a way.
Course, I’m not just talking mothers now. All of us tend to
try to make things happen on our own, and the trouble with that is we, on our own,
will always fail. That’s because we try to fit our plans into God’s will, and
not His plans into ours. God will make a way, usually in spite of what we do!
So, here’s to all the “Mothers”, the Mommmmms, the Mama’s-We
love you, we appreciate all you do, and we place you in the light of God’s
love. And for every moment of doubt, don’t worry. God will make a way.
Wednesday, March 31, 2021
Passover
Passover began last Saturday, and is ending this Saturday. It is possibly the Holiest of traditions in Judaism, if any one thing can be more holy than another. It is also one of the strongest links between Christianity and Judaism. When Jesus sat with His disciples for a "Last Supper", it was a Seder meal. Both meals are commanded to be observed. The Seder annually, the Last Supper "as oft as ye shall...". Both meals are meals of remembrance. the Seder for remembrance of God's deliverance from slavery, the Last Supper in remembrance of the One who broke the bonds of sin and death to which we were enslaved. It has occurred to me (this IS Thoughts & Musings, after all) that we have other connections to this meal and Holy Week as well. Holy week being that time between Christ's Triumphal Entry into Jerusalem and His Easter Resurrection. If I'm wrong, it will not cause any great chasm in the faith, I just found them interesting.
Sunday - Christ's entry into Jerusalem. Shouts of "Hosanna in the highest!" "Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord!" These rang out as Jesus rode into Jerusalem. During the Seder meal, just at sunset, the matriarch of the family will rise, light he candle and say "Blessed are you, our God, Creator of time and space, who enriches our lives with holiness, commanding us to kindle the (Shabbat and)holiday light." This or a variation of, is done before each Holy Feast. Thus thru the woman, who would carry the seed of salvation, God enters.
Monday - Cleansing of the Temple. Jesus enters and sees the money changers and charlatans and all those who would use the House of God for their own power and profit, making it unclean. He puts cords together to make a whip, and chases them out, saying "My house shall be called the house of prayer, but you have made it a den of thieves." During preparation for the Seder, a house must be cleaned of all leaven. Not a even a mouse sized scrap is to be left. Traditionally, the leaven is collected the day before the Seder, taken outside, and burned. This way, the house is cleansed, and God can enter in.
Maundy Thursday - Probably our strongest connection, but in this let me put in two parts.
The Bread - "This is my body which is broken for you." During the Seder, there are three Matzot (unleavened bread) separated from each other by cloths or napkins. On of these is broken, and hidden (called the afikomen) which the children will then spread out to find during the meal. The child that does find it brings it back to the patriarch of the family, and the negotiations to turn it over begin! Once a price is agreed on, the patriarch redeems the hostage afikomen and the broken Matzot is made whole again.
The Wine - "This cup is the new covenant in my blood." In the Seder, four cups of wine are consumed, each for a representation of God's deliverance. "I will bring out." "I will deliver." "I will redeem" "I will take" (Exodus 6:6-7) But scripture says the cup Jesus took was after the supper. A fifth cup of wine is poured and untouched during a Seder, that is the cup of Elijah. It is left untouched in honor of the prophet, who according to tradition, would arrive as an unknown guest to announce Messiah. Some believe, myself included, it was THIS cup he raised and said "This is my blood."
These are just a few, but I think you see what I'm saying. A pastor years ago told me that the Old and New Testaments are not two books, but one. Everything in the Old Testament points to and is fulfilled in Jesus, and all that Jesus was, is and is to come, shines a greater understanding of all before. God took His time sending us His son, so that the world could better understand Him, like children first learning discipline to growing into the knowledge of how to do right on their own. He is still waiting on returning to us, so that not a soul that CAN be saved will be lost.
The Seder tradition now ends with the words "Next year, in Jerusalem!" I would add "Next year, in the New Jerusalem!" Even so, come Lord Jesus!
Monday, March 15, 2021
Lent - Hope, Peace, Joy, Love
285 Days until Christmas! As slow as 2020r was, you’d
think it was already here. We’ve had at least 3 seasons in the last month –
Winter, Spring, and Monsoon. CS Lewis said “because man enjoys a change out of
the routine, god created seasons, and because man liked consistency, He put
them in the same order every year.” I don’t thing Middle Tennessee got that
memo.
So, what season is it now? We’ve gone thru that fat baby
with the arrows season. Pollen season is up us. St. Patrick’s day is almost
here. Baseball, Basketball, Hockey, even FOOTBALL Season! Already had Fat
Tuesday, although every day is Fat Tuesday for me. Ah yes, it’s the season of
LENT! (no not lint, like your belly button, LENT.)
So, what is Lent? Lent, compared to Advent, is often
treated like the ugly, drunk step-cousin at a family reunion. You know, the
type you have to invite, but you sit him way back in the corner, and far away
from the bourbon balls. Advent is joyful anticipation, Lent like fearful
suspense. Advent like “God’s gift to us”, Lent like “You gonna get it!”. Advent
is all neat and organized with candles and trees and greenery, and lent is
messy, bloody. And we don’t like to think about that.
But Advent and Lent are not step-cousins, they’re more like
identical twins. Advent prepares us for the revelation of God’s Gift to Mankind
by Jesus birth, and Lent prepares us for it’s true realization by His
suffering, death and glorious resurrection!
So how do we prepare in Lent? Tradition says to deny yourself
during that 40 days, so we tend to look at lent more like a punishment. But
that sacrifice is only good if it leads you to contemplate His coming glory of
Easter. So, I’d like to suggest a slightly different way to look at Lent.
Advent is all neat and divided up into separate weeks, each
contemplating a different aspect of Jesus birth – Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love.
Let’s look at Lent with each of these not through a manger, but through a
cross.
Hope: 2 Corinthians 1: 9-10 – “Indeed, we felt
we had received this sentence of death. But that was to make us rely not on
ourselves but on God who raises the dead. He delivered us from such a deadly
peril, and He will deliver us. On Him we have set up our hope, that He will
deliver us again.”
We tend to look at the cross as a sad event in the Easter
story, and truthfully, it should tear your heart in two the suffering that
Jesus went through. But that cross is not a symbol of despair, but HOPE. It is
a symbol of death, but that death was for the death of our sins, so that we
might LIVE in Jesus Christ. Our hope, our only hope, is through that cross. To
take it up not as a punishment, but as His Salvation.
Peace: Philippians 4:6-7 “Do not be anxious
about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving
let your requests be known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all
understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”
So what’s so peaceful about a cross? Granted nothing from
outward appearance. But that’s the point. This peace doesn’t come because of
the circumstances around you, it comes in spite of the circumstances around
you. The first part of these two verses says that peace comes by prayer and
supplication, but the cross is HOW we are allowed to pray at all. The cross is
our doorway into the Throne Room of God. The cross allows us to petition Him
face to face. The cross was instrumental in the peace of our Salvation. Jesus.
Joy: Psalm 30:5 “Weeping may tarry for the
night, but joy comes with the morning.”
Joy. Wow. That’s a hard concept when thinking about a
cross. In the Garden of Gethsemane, when praying to the Father, Jesus stress
was so great the He even sweat drops of blood. Some would even bring up that
from the cross, Jesus cried “My God, my God, why have you forgotten me?” He was
in terrible anguish and pain. But was this a cry of abandonment? Follow me down
this rabbit hole for a moment. If I sing “Amazing Grace”, then stop, what’s the
next thing you think? “How sweet the sound”, right? Songs have a way of doing
that, especially very familiar songs. You hear one line, and the rest comes to
mind. Now we go a little further, and we also know that the book of Psalms is a
collection of songs and poetry often used in the synagogue for worship. In
those Psalms, I’d like to bring up Psalm 22. The first verse of Psalm 22 is “My
God, my God, why have you forgotten me?” Naturally, that song would come to the
hearer’s mind. What are some of the other verses?
Verse 8 – “He trust in the Lord, let Him Deliver Him.”
Luke 23: 38 “He saved others: let him save himself.”
Verse 14 – “I am poured out like water, all my bones are
out of joint.”
John 19: 34 “But one of the soldiers pierced his side with
a spear and at once there came out blood and water.”
Verse 18: “They divide my garments amongst them. For my
clothing they cast lots.”
Luke 23: 34 “And they cast lots to divide his garments”
And later in verses 27 & 28? “All the ends of the earth
shall remember and turn to the LORD and all the families of the nations shall
worship before you, for kingship belongs to the LORD and He rules over the
nations.”
This Psalm is and was then considered a prophecy of the
coming Messiah. It was written around 1000 BC, well before crucifixion was a
thing, yet it described it accurately. This psalm was well known to the crowd
around Jesus cross. So when Jesus shouted “My God, my God, why have you
forgotten me”, what do you think was the first thing to come to the crowd’s
mind? This wasn’t a cry of agony, but a song of VICTORY! This was a laugh in
the face of Satan. This was Jesus saying, you thought you had me, but this cross
is how I win! This was JOY! Joy because of a cross! “Weeping may tarry through
the night, but Joy comes in the morning.” Or like the old saying goes, “It’s
Friday night, but Sunday’s coming!”
Love – John 3:16 “For God so loved the world,
that He gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not
perish, but have eternal life.”
God so loved the world. In spite of all mankind had done,
in spite of man willfully turning from Him and taking on sin, God willfully
took on the sacrifice of blood to bring us back. The cross was the only option.
Adam knew the effect of sin was death, and only a perfect sacrifice, His
perfect sacrifice, could remove that sin. God so loved the world. So perfectly,
so deeply, so desperately loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son.
From the Christmas miracle of God becoming flesh, fully human and fully God, to
the Easter miracle of death, burial, and resurrection victory, God so loved the
world.
Now that may cause some to see the cross as an endpoint. A
line in the sand, an ultimatum even. “Ok, I’ve done my part. I’m not doing any
more. You’re either with me or against me.” Look at the attitude of a lot of
Christians, and you know what I’m talking about. But that’s not what the cross
represents. Look at the very next verse in John, verse 17:
“For God did not send His Son into the world to
condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through Him.”
The cross is not a line in the sand, not an ultimatum, it’s
an open door. It’s God saying, I’ve removed all the barriers, come home. Some
people will misuse this verse to say there is no Hell. A loving God wouldn’t
send someone to Hell after all that. Hear me out, that is not what this verse
is saying. Now I’m gonna give you the other side of the coin. Make no mistake,
there is a Hell. But it’s not God’s will to send you there. God’s gift was for
all sin, everyone’s sin. Cause guess what? Everyone has, and everyone will sin.
In the book of Romans, Paul says “All have sinned, and fall short of the glory
of God.” And there’s no sliding scale on sin, either. A Man who beats his wife
and kids and me flipping off somebody in traffic are equally sinners in the
eyes of God. And God equally loves us and equally gave Himself for us.
So why is there a Hell? Because the love of the cross is an
open gift, to either take or refuse. God loves His creation of mankind so much,
that He wants all to accept Him, that not one would be lost. He loves His
creation so much, that He allows us the choice to say yes or no to Him, and
respects the decision we make. Even though His heart breaks when we do not
accept His offer. God so loves the world, that He doesn’t control us, He
doesn’t force us, He opens the door with the cross and asks us to come in,
return to Him. “Amazing Love, how can it be, that Thou my God should die for
me?”
Hope, Peace, Joy, Love. These are the things that I would
ask you to consider for Lent.
Hope, Peace, Joy, Love. These are given to us by His
glorious cross.
Hope, Pease, Joy,
Love. Choice.
Have you chosen? What will you choose? Eternal life or
Eternal Death? Heaven or Hell? It is your free will to choose. The cross has
opened the door. Will you go in?
Sunday, January 10, 2021
Peace beyond understanding
When I first “re-found” Jesus in 1979, I had a chance to go
to a Spiritual Learning Camp called CFO. It was really quite a experience.
Amazingly gracious people, strong in the Lord, putting up with all us Newbies,
who thought we knew it all. Anyway, one of the spiritual exercises was to try and use
whatever talent you had create something to express and share Christ. (craft,
poem, etc.)
Well, I wasn’t sure what to do, I’ve never been very craft
oriented, other than eating glue at a young age. Was a little afraid of poetry, because my spelling was awful. So I decided to try and write
a song. It was one of the first times I had attempted songwriting, and I’d never tried to write a “Christian” song. But try I did. It borrowed rather shamelessly
from Ronnie Milsap songs of the late 1970s, but I made it through. Part of the chorus
went:
“Is the Lord at the top of your life, what a blessing it is
to believe,
That if we give to Him our everything, there’s so much more
to receive.”
I think it is safe to say, I’m glad I kept trying to get better
with songwriting after that! But that song is still special to me because it
reminds me of what it felt like to be brand new in my Christian walk. The joy.
The feeling for being loved so much it was overwhelming at times. And most of
all, the peace. All of these things seemed to completely envelop me, and I
walked in them, even though none of the circumstances around me had changed, the
Father God, Savior Son, and Guiding Spirit were now protecting me, they were my
shield and my trust.
I have to say, I had a great deal of trouble finding what I
felt God would want me to say today. We were all so ready for 2020 to be gone,
even as it ended with a Christmas Day bombing on Second Avenue. More colorful
expressions have been created for this past year than I can ever remember. And
before we get the final “See ‘ya” out of the way, our nation’s Capital building
is sieged. While there is a joint
session of both House and Senate. Not by enemy nation, but by Americans! I was
shocked, then I was mad, then I was enraged. More so than I have been in quite
a long time, and I’ve got a pretty good temper when it gets loose. Where is the
peace now?! Where is my shield?! WHERE IS GOD?!?!
My wife, smart woman that she is, left me stew for a bit. (By
the way, you don’t know how lucky and blessed I am to have as patient a woman
as Barbara by my side. She can wait until after my outbursts and still stays by me.)
then I remembered my prayer book. The Book of Common Prayer. This was given to
me by a friend that has known me bad and good since 1978. And as far as I know,
still hasn’t told some of the things he knows about me. I digress. In the
prayer book is this prayer for our country.
Almighty God, who has given us this good land for our
heritage; We humbly beseech thee that we may always prove ourselves a people
mindful of thy favor and glad to do thy will. Bless our land with honorable
industry, sound learning, and pure manners. Save us from violence, discord, and
confusion; from pride and arrogancy, and from every evil way. Defend our liberties,
and fashion in one united people the multitudes brought hither out of many
kindreds and tongues. Endue with the spirit of Wisdom those to whom in thy Name
we entrust the authority of Government, that there may be justice and peace at
home, and that, through obedience to thy law, we may show forth thy praise
among the nations of the earth. In time of prosperity, fill our hearts with
thankfulness; and in the day of trouble, suffer not our trust in thee to fail.
All which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
And there it was, ”in the day of trouble, suffer not our
trust in thee to fail.” Our joy is in Him. Our hope is in Him. Our PEACE is in
Him. I’ve forgotten so often that fist love. It was time to let Him speak. I
want you to read out loud the verses below. Out loud. Not because its fun to
control people like that (ok, maybe a little 😊) but because there is no greater power than
God’s word when spoken aloud.
Isaiah 26: 3
You will keep in perfect peace
those
whose minds are steadfast,
because
they trust in you.
Psalm 4:8
In peace I will lie down and sleep,
for you
alone, Lord,
make me
dwell in safety.
Psalm 85:8
I will listen to what God the Lord says;
he
promises peace to his people, his faithful servants
Isaiah 9:6-7
And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Of the greatness of his government and peace there will be no end.
Isaiah 26:3
You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because
they trust in you
Isaiah 55:12
You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you,
and all the trees of the field will clap their hands.
Philippians 4:7
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding,
will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
And from our Lord:
John 16:33
“I have told you these things, so that in me you
may have PEACE. In this world you will have trouble.
But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
Overcome this world. Overcome this world! Dear church, we are
in this world, but not OF this world. Our peace cannot come from anything
this world can give. Our Joy is in Him, our Hope is in Him, our PEACE
is in Him - alone. He came from a throne to a manger, and became flesh and
blood, and only a power that great can take us and free us from this world,
Only a power that great can grant us a peace so amazing that it goes beyond
understanding. The circumstances don’t change, but His PEACE changes us.
Maybe you don’t know that peace. Maybe you’ve never been
embraced by that love. Open your heart to Him. Come to Him as a little child.
Simply trust, and give Him, like the song said, your everything. There’s so
much more to receive.
Wednesday, January 6, 2021
The Tree Wise Dudes - an Epiphany repost
From a few years ago, but worthy still...the scene is one night in Babylon...
Melchior - Gentlemen, thank you for coming! But why are there just two of you?
Caspar - Because no one else would give up a good night's sleep to listen to your ravings, Melchior.
Balthazar - And why are we here in the middle of the night, instead of our soft warm beds?
M - Look to the sky...over there...and tell me what you see.
B - Sooo Dramatic!
C - OK, I'll bite. Sky, stars. Same as at the beginning of time, same until time's end. Again, why are we here, Melchior?
M - Look to that one star, the bright one.
B - So, it's bright. It's just the north star. No, wait, that's the eastern sky. Then maybe a planet or sun we hadn't noticed?
C - You could have told us this in the morning. Why now to tell us of a star?
M - Because it is not A star, it is THE star.
C - (pause) The one from the Jewish prophecies.
M - The same.
B - How are you sure?
M - I've been watching the sky since this star appeared. It did not move into place, it appeared. And since then, as the other lights have moved and danced across the sky, THIS star took a different path, straight and true. And for the last week, has not moved at all. This is the place. We follow the star, we find the KING!
All of this is conjecture, of course. What we know from scripture is that men came from the east, sidetracked to King Herod's palace, found Jesus, gave gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh, and after a warning dream, dodged Herod on the return trip. (Which did not make Herod a happy boy.) Everything else is tradition and supposition. That these men were not Jewish is probable, but they may have had servants who were, thus their knowledge of the prophecy of a Messiah/King.
Jesus is not a God of just Jews, or just Christians, but is a God of all. John 3:16 says "God so loved THE WORLD.". He was not here for just a subset of society. We are not seen by God as the classes and groups we have placed ourselves and others in. Our only two classifications are "All have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God." and "Those who are born of water & spirit.". Remember, too, that being part of the latter doesn't exclude you from the former! Treat all as God's creation. Love all as your bother/sister. Seek God, and offer the gift of yourself. And try not to let Herod catch you!